Is ViruSs Neglectful in Love?
Not long ago, ViruSs and Ngoc Kem appeared on a couples’ show hosted by MisThy. During the program, the beautiful TikToker revealed that she is always the one to make up and apologize first whenever they argue: “Whenever we fight, whether he’s right or wrong, he just stays silent and says nothing. I love Hoang, so I know what silent treatment really means, like being treated as if you’re invisible.”
Ngoc Kem admitted she doesn’t want their relationship to be like this, but dating someone like ViruSs means she has to get used to it. She also said his silent spells can last a long time, sometimes up to five days.
ViruSs Responds After Fans Call His Relationship “Toxic”
This sparked a lot of chatter online, with people debating the seemingly neglectful way the streamer handles love. The drama didn’t stop there, as ViruSs faced tons of criticism. While he said he’s used to the situation, his girlfriend reportedly cried a lot out of worry for him.
Seeing things getting out of hand and affecting his partner’s feelings, ViruSs posted videos to clarify and address viewers directly. He even shared his reaction to a TikToker’s psychological analysis of his relationship style.
The streamer admitted that what Ngoc Kem said is partly true, but he insisted he’s not the one who lets her make up first. Whenever they fight, she’s usually the one to reach out, and if he’s in the wrong, he’s the one to apologize and make peace: “Relationships are about two people, and as long as both understand each other, that’s enough. No one is perfect. We have our own ways to sort things out clearly. That’s why we’re still together today.”
ViruSs also emphasized that they are very happy. After the drama, his girlfriend actually cares for him even more. Plus, the attention has helped boost their business ventures.
Finally, the streamer said, “Loving one person forever is extremely rare. Love means loving many people over time, learning from each experience to become better. Of course, I’m not encouraging dating multiple people.”
Despite his explanations, many comments under his videos remain negative, calling ViruSs stubborn, self-centered, and unsuitable as a partner.
What do you think about the way this streamer handles love?
