After his divorce, Xemesis (Hiếu Nghiêm, born 1989) was rumored to be dating Khánh Hòa hot girl Bò Chảnh (Nguyễn Thị Ý Nhi, born 1998). The couple never officially confirmed their relationship but dropped plenty of hints like secret trips to luxury resorts, public interactions on social media, and filming videos together.
After some time, in the early hours of February 17, Bò Chảnh suddenly messaged fans in her chat channel, announcing that she had ended their relationship.
According to Bò Chảnh, she feels “hurt because of lies.” The Khánh Hòa beauty said she gave her all and often excused the other person’s mistakes, believing they didn’t mean to hurt her. “When someone does something wrong to me, instead of speaking up so they don’t repeat it, I pretend to understand and let it slide because I want to be the good girl,” she wrote.
She also added that thanks to supportive friends, she found the strength to face the pain, accept that the other person’s nature can’t be changed, and is grateful their relationship ended.
Here’s Bò Chảnh’s full message:
“I’m still awake at this hour, hurt because of lies. At first, I get very angry, then I stop communicating and turn inward. In every relationship, when I care deeply, if they mess up, I always make excuses because I believe they don’t mean to. Childhood emotional wounds have greatly shaped who I am as an adult. When someone does something wrong to me, instead of speaking up so they don’t repeat it, I pretend to understand and let it slide because I want to be the good girl.
That’s a terrible way to handle things in life. Thanks to good friends who taught me to be strong and face reality, but for those not worthy, I have to learn to let go and accept that I once cared deeply for them, and their true nature can’t be changed. Only then can I slowly heal instead of staying angry. I’m also thankful for everything that happened in my fate and that it ended.
We attract people like ourselves. My life is getting better and I’m meeting good people. The universe has pushed away those who don’t fit. I should be happy.
Finally, the lesson I want to share is to live honestly and kindly. When hurt, be brave to face it. Don’t avoid it and let the pain build up until it bleeds silently. Then the other person will never understand or change in time. This applies to parents, friends, siblings, and lovers.
There’s a saying: some things, once chosen to be silent at the time, should never be spoken of in life. Wishing us all to be as happy as children, with conversations becoming less guarded. Be kind and start with yourself.”
Although Bò Chảnh’s message didn’t mention Xemesis by name, netizens quickly linked it to him since the two were rumored to be involved recently.
As for Xemesis, he was also rumored to have a new girlfriend but quickly denied it.
On February 12, Xemesis posted a photo with a girl at a pickleball tournament party. When a fan asked directly, “Is she your girlfriend, Hiếu?” the richest Vietnamese streamer replied, “Just a teammate.”
The last time Bò Chảnh and Xemesis appeared together was in a seafood restaurant review video posted on January 27, where they seemed relaxed and happy together.
Rumors about their relationship first surfaced in late August 2024, when they were spotted by bystanders at the airport showing signs of closeness beyond friendship.
In mid-September 2024, they took a trip to Nha Trang together, posting photos of fishing and checking in at a luxury resort. Although their photos were posted separately and they didn’t appear in the same frame, it was clear they were dating.
Since then, neither confirmed nor denied their relationship but were widely believed to be involved.
