Guy Sees Shocking Mess After Dating Over a Year
Born in 1996, the guy named A has been dating his girlfriend, born in 2000, for over a year. He said both of them look decent and match well. Every time they went out, she dressed simply and neatly but with her own style. That’s why he was totally stunned when he saw how messy her room actually was.
He said that at first, she would always meet him at the street corner when they hung out. It wasn’t until after more than a year that she finally let him into her small, cluttered, and smelly room. She explained she was busy working all the time and didn’t have time to clean.
But he insists this lifestyle isn’t okay. She clearly has days off, yet every time he visits, the place looks the same. After he took the initiative to clean up for her and gave some feedback, she just brushed it off. The last time, after cleaning up and getting frustrated, he raised his voice, only to be told he was just too picky.
Disappointed by His Beautiful but Messy Girlfriend
Feeling let down by his pretty but untidy girlfriend, he shared: “We’ve been together for nearly a year and a half, but I’m helpless about her messy lifestyle. Part of me wants to end it, but I still care. I keep thinking if we get married, I’d end up like a live-in maid.
I’m almost 30. I want a serious relationship leading to marriage, where we support and build a life together. But imagining coming home after work to clean up trash makes the idea of marriage with her feel so bleak.”
In the comments, many people weren’t surprised by the story. There have been plenty of viral posts exposing messy, dirty lifestyles of popular online girls. Most viewers think he shouldn’t continue the relationship since habits this deep are hard to change. If he can’t accept it, staying together will only bring stress to both.
Responding to the feedback, the guy said: “Thanks everyone, I’ve read most of your comments. I know it’s tough, but I still want to talk more with my girlfriend about this. I’m the type who values feelings and want to give us a chance to change. If it doesn’t work out, I’ll make decisions later. Thanks again, and have a great day.”
