When it comes to abuse, most people automatically think of female victims, the innocent girls who suffer. While that’s often true, sometimes men become victims too. Take the case of a gamer named Puppeh, who recently spoke out about being abused at 14 by a female colleague who was 10 years older than him.

According to Puppeh, the abuse happened in 2016 when he had just turned 14. They met at a party where Puppeh says the intoxicated woman, Cinnpie, dragged him into a bathroom, kissed him repeatedly, and sexually abused him. Afterward, Puppeh’s mental state worsened as Cinnpie sent mixed signals, sometimes comforting him by promising to officially be his girlfriend when he turned 18, but also threatening him to delete all chat history and keep the incident a secret.

At 14, Puppeh admits he didn’t know how to handle the situation. He wasn’t completely against it at first since he had feelings for Cinnpie. But things changed over time. His practice schedule suffered because he had to spend time playing games with her and her boyfriend. Although he initially liked her, the experience turned into a nightmare. Every time he saw her, he felt fear, pain, and couldn’t focus during major tournaments.

So far, Cinnpie hasn’t commented on the allegations. The online community is actively debating Puppeh’s story. Puppeh himself says he has no intention of revenge, just wants to share his experience to lighten the burden after suffering from depression for a long time.